💬 Be Someone’s Conversational Follower.
Personally, one of the changes that has made a difference to me is to keep a copy of the comments I make around the web. This is a part of the IndieWeb. Some sites accept comments in the form of webmentions, however those that do not (like your own) I simply cut and paste. I find that this extra effort has made the exercise more meaningful. Someone who might have something to add to this is Chris Aldrich.
Chris Aldrich has compiled a number of resources that might be of help. Basically, you would need to:
If you are still having issues then I would recommend checking out the IndieWeb site and / or joining the IndieWeb WordPress chat.